Just Happy

my cat

I am currently just happy that things are working out very well in my relationship. Just a month ago, I wrote a few words where I mentioned what is going on my life. I was a bit skeptical where things would go but day for day I am just surprised how well things work out. We solved all our issues and as said, we have a very open and healthy style of communication now. In fact, we do now focus on enjoying the beautiful things together. We’re definitely in the honeymoon phase because we can’t stop telling each other how strong our feelings are. I am happy about something else too: My mother is now accepting my girlfriend and we already did a few things together. Today for example, we will have dinner together with my mother. It feels so good when things work well.

12 thoughts on “Just Happy

    1. It was a realy bad start last year but now I do understand entirely what just happened between us. For the most part, it was about fears, for example her fear to attach, to eventually get her heart broken yet again (past experiences). Basically, about her trust issues and other things. Basically, she did hurt me unintentionally, before I could “possibly” hurt her. That’s the simple version because we had to talk about other things and a few other problems we were able to solve once we communicated about the things openly without secrets. Feels very serious now.

      I could have given up. And many people told me to do it. But I saw that it’s not about us but about things that happened in her life, and to a degree also in my life.

      Talking about her trust issues, she asked me if I would move together with her. She wants serious commitment. I told her yes, I am not the type of guy who plays games. Of course this gives me fears, but I told her it has to do with the fact that this is a new chapter for me, I lived alone for so long. It’s not about her, I am completely sure that I want to stay together with her. It’s just the fear of change that I always have, when there are big changes in my life.

      So, it’s very likely this will happen this year. She is also ok with my cat, my guitars and everything I find important. I told her I wouldn’t do it without my cat. But she told me she doesn’t demand that I give the things I love up.

      1. It sounds like you two can make this work now that you are talking about your fears and worries together instead of fighting. I do wish you both the best of luck.

        1. That’s how it feels, yes, especially because we can talk about our fears and worries now without getting into arguments. We’re calm and interested to discover each others world of thoughts. ๐Ÿ™‚

          Thank you very much for the wishes Vanda. ๐Ÿ™‚

    1. It is. ๐Ÿ™‚ I am just glad that we didn’t give up, and that both of us believed that we can make it work. We understand each other better now. And it just works so well now.

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