There is a fantastic article by Dr. Craig Childress about the nature of the splitting dynamic that is characteristic of both borderline and narcissism. The article elaborates the equivalence of both at the attachment level and explains the defense mechanism … Continue reading BPD and NPD: Splitting Defense Mechanism, Attachment Issues, False Accusations and “Parental Alienation”
I visited my lawyer this Friday as my wife is not very cooperative with me when it’s about our child. I have only seen my daughter once and I barely get any information. She will have something in the mailbox … Continue reading Letting my Lawyer off the Leash
As I mentioned in an earlier post, my wife wanted to apply for child benefits and parental allowance. Thus, she needed signatures from me but didn’t give me all pages. Not that I want to annoy her, but I’ve never … Continue reading Absurdities With my Borderline Wife: Signatures
My wife needed something. Guess what happens when she needs something? Right, she unblocks me and contacts me as nothing ever happened. Doesn’t even matter if she gave birth to our daughter 5 days ago without telling me, the father. … Continue reading Absurdities With my Borderline Wife: Tit for Tat? I saw my daughter!
As I recently wrote in another post, my wife contacted me out of the blue again, I wrote about it. It was a back and forth with some mixed signals. She was partly admitting that she suffers from the breakup … Continue reading Absurdities With my Borderline Wife: Rage and Abused via Text
I just got hoovered again by my wife. The last time I talked to her face to face was when we crossed paths in the park on March 18, I wrote about that. I basically just greeted her that day … Continue reading Absurdities With my Borderline Wife: Hoovering, Mixed Signals and a Squirrel
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