Hoovering Again and Other News
Today I opened Instagram and noticed in the search bar that my wife must have unblocked me. I noticed it by coincidence as her name is still suggested in the search bar as I barely used the search. I just … Continue reading Hoovering Again and Other News
BPD Examples: Approach Avoidance Conflict Followed by Idealization Phase Start
This will be a very lengthy post. It’s going to show the beginning of the relationship between my wife and me. At least how we got officially together, and how intimacy started between us. The emotional connection however started 6 … Continue reading BPD Examples: Approach Avoidance Conflict Followed by Idealization Phase Start
Absurdities With my Borderline Wife: Submissively Dependent on her Mother Again
The Mother-in-law Conflict My wife had a dispute with her controlling and narcissistic mother since we’ve been together. That happened a few times in their history as my wife told me. Her mother never liked it if she had a … Continue reading Absurdities With my Borderline Wife: Submissively Dependent on her Mother Again
Absurdities With my Borderline Wife: Who is manipulating Whom?
Maybe it’s my way to heal, but I am still going through the text messages and communication I had with my wife. Doing this helps me to get rid of any self-doubt, that I am the crazy one. And after … Continue reading Absurdities With my Borderline Wife: Who is manipulating Whom?
I married on June 2 but we are no longer together since November 24. We came together on February 27, although we had almost a half year of relational “foreplay” before that. From February 2022 on, I must say I … Continue reading Breakup
I married yesterday. Now she is my wife and I am her husband. It was a wonderful day. We have choosen a wedding vow. We did repeat each sentence and at the end she started to shake, and even her … Continue reading We’re Married